Timeline of Heroin Binge
by Nathan Thompson
1. Anticipation – Call is made to dealer and meeting point arranged
2. Disappointment – when realizing the dealer is going to turn up whenever the hell he wants and there’s nothing you can do about it
3. Almost Painful Amounts of Anticipation – the drugs are procured and you are waiting for a suitable opportunity (read: toilet) to use
4. Initial High – endorphin bath, the world is beautiful, there is nothing you can’t do, no fear, no worry
5. Chasing Initial High – doing more hoping to get the initial rush back, which doesn’t work but makes sure the effects last a long time
6. Annoying Physical Impairments – inability to piss, defecate, ejaculate etc.
7. Annoying Mental Impairments – clumsyness, inability to concentrate, confusion
8. Full blown reality dissipation – The heroin world is now more real than the real world. You think you are behaving normally but you are not
9. Decision to Come Down – this is made while high and the enormity of it does not register due to mental confusion previously mentioned
10. Heroin begins to leave the system – less mental confusion now but more depression
11. Heroin Rapidly Leaving System – the world is a cold dark place, everything is ugly and my life is pointless. The 5 stages of grief begin with denial and depression
12. Why cant everyone leave me alone?? Stage 3: Anger
13. Huge, toilet destroying turds
14. Return of appetite
15. Realization that reality is not that bad and there are things to live for, stage 5: Acceptance (NB. I skipped ‘Bargaining’ as it has no relevance)
16. Gratitude that all heroin is now out of system combined with the deluded belief that it will never happen again
Great stuff, never ever heard the circle of grip use put into words swell deserving.
Bargaining:
If i go to that appointment today i’ll allow myself a hit, just one more hit, a little reward really, not a continuation, but an isolated little treat for being good…
Going thru ur old blogs. This one is bang on
Thank you!
I hate the fact that I can relate to what you write with a sense of knowng like I know my own name. A sense of reality and full engagement I can liken to the day I gave birth to my childen. With a sick sense of longing And desire of anticipation similar to the realization of a first love. I knew I was a true heroin addict when i could relate to the lifestyle and realized that MY logical brain was following in the footsteps of others I knew to be addicts and once felt some sense of superiority over. It didnt take long for me to realize that I was no better or worse, just a member of a club where all the participants were sick and suffering from the same illness. Knowing that If I dont find some way to free myself, as only I am able to do, I will meet my maker well before I once anticipated that I would. The reality of which has been based solely on the decisions I have made. My choice to destroy my own life and the lives of whomever still has the capacity to care about me ( a select few individuals, I am sure, because the very nature of MY illness will dictate that I isolate myself away from anyone who has ever reached out to offer a kind word or a helping hand. THEY have to make the choice to love me from a distance or write me off as a lost cause…a wasted effort at the all knowing hands of a merciful GOD). I am not a piece of junk. My life and experiences do have value. Everything happens for a reason. This is what I tell myself. It is what I have to hold on to so that I can make it just one more day. These thoughts and acknowledgements must keep me warm at night and satiate my thirst and hunger for what ails my spirit.
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I don’t know how much this will matter but, my older brother is a heroin addict and I really could not understand him nor could I let go of all the anger I felt towards him. While I was searching the web for some kind of hope or some way to deal with his addiction, I came across your blog. Simply reading it makes me understand him so much more. I think this was the answer I was looking for and I just wanted to say thank you. I am at least a small step closer to forgiving my brother because I am a step closer to understanding him.
thanks for your comment. At the end of the day heroin addicts are suffering from a form of mental illness. Remember, they suffer as much if not more than anyone. My route out of it was rehab – 12 step groups – Vipassana meditation course – yoga and a lot of support from my family. Love to you x